2023 CHRISTMAS APPEAL
"Quite simply I'm divorced and am still living, almost three years later, with my ex-husband because I can't afford to move out."
Rose* is nearing 70 years old. She has raised 4 children and worked extensively as a journalist and communications professional. She does not want to be the face of the housing crisis, or of domestic violence, but she also doesn’t want these issues to be unseen.
After years of surviving an abusive marriage, Rose ended her relationship, but still hasn’t been able to escape.
She will spend this Christmas in a home that is unsafe.
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“There will be a tsunami of women coming behind me, they may be in their 50s now, who have no superannuation and they won’t be able to afford housing. Where are they going to live?” she said.
Anglicare Financial Counsellor, Marisol Kroiter, has been meeting with Rose for almost a year, providing financial advice and supporting her to reach her goal of living independently.
“Rose is an amazing human being and an advocate for housing” said Marisol, “but even with her knowledge and abilities and her work experience, the amount of affordable or social housing in the Riverina region is so limited that she has no choice but to stay, as unsafe as that is, or be homeless.”
“We’re seeing many women in the same situation as Rose. With less earning capacity, these women receive less in superannuation and rising living costs mean they are increasingly vulnerable.”
With her current housing situation untenable, and unable to find an affordable rental, Rose was encouraged by Marisol to put her name down on the NSW Housing Register. “It was probably one of the most traumatic experiences of my life, the process of applying to get on the housing list”, she said. “I was in tears. It was hideous.”
The current wait time for social housing in the Riverina region is between 2-10 years.
Meanwhile, research shows that 42% of Specialist Homelessness Services clients are women experiencing violence, and that 1 in 4 women over the age of 15 has experienced violence, emotional abuse or economic abuse by a cohabiting partner.***